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Granddad...
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Dear Granddad,
My cousin, who was convicted of stealing cash from a retail store another city over, was
allowed to move in with my husband and me as part of her probation. She is also required
to have a full time job and is working at an upscale women’s clothing store near our house.
Here’s the problem: I’ve known for three months that she is stealing merchandise from
the store. I love much of what she’s stolen and have, in fact, stolen some of these items
from her (which she knows about but can’t report)! The other day when I stole a designer
cuff bracelet from her, I realized that I might be the one with the problem. I have no idea
how to go about undoing what I’ve started. I want to keep everything I’ve taken from
Ashley (not her real name) but know that I should be reporting this to her probation officer.
Could I be arrested for this? Should I face the music and just turn her in? Should I
discuss with my husband who will not understand? What do I do? Please HELP!!!
Dear Drippin,
To quote Paul Greenburg,”It was wholly a pleasure to hear from you.” I have believed for a long
time that the two professions that have the most potential for a full schedule are mental health and
golf instruction. People like you are out there needing help, and the golf courses are littered with
humanity trying to play the game when they honestly don’t know the difference between a pitching
wedge and a crowbar. If you are not pulling my leg, here’s what you better do: Get cuz, her probation
officer and your attorney together for a confessional. Have all the bling and other goods on
the table, honestly tell the entire story, cop a nol-ocontendre, and pray for mercy. Yes, you should
have discussed this with your husband prior to the sit down. Sounds to me like he has some plans
to make as regards his laundry and meals. Hope you look good in an orange jump suit.
Dear Granddad,
My best friend, who has lived out of town for the last 8 years, has recently moved back.
Times have changed during his absence, and I have connected with both male and female
new friends. I do a lot with the community, and a lot of my spare time is spent on
the golf course, a fairly new hobby that my old buddy and I don’t share. I have tried to
introduce him to some of my friends but it turns out a disaster every time. He is argumentative
and opinionated about everything. Whether it is his political views or reality
T.V. - he has input. And more times than not he offends the friends that I have cultivated
relationships with. I, in turn, find myself explaining and taking up for him when really
I am offended as well. Can this type of problem be resolved? I’ve tried pulling him aside
and telling him to cool it, but after awhile he gets stirred up again. I just can’t take him
anywhere with me these days.
Dear Sir,
People do change and, doubtlessly, you have also. Friendships are generally based on common
interests and it sounds as though you and former friend have less in common than you once did.
If you have read my suggestions in past issues, you probably remember that I’m not high on
changing folks. If they suit you, fine, if not move on. This doesn’t make you right or him wrong,
it simply means that over time your interests have taken different courses. If it were me, I’d not
make a big thing of the split; I’d just be less available. Smart people get messages, and maybe your
friend will realize there is a reason for your absences. Life is too short to be miserable, and nothing
is as miserable as being around someone who makes you uncomfortable.
Dear Granddad,
I’m not sure if I’m considered a devout Catholic, but I was raised as a Catholic and attended
Catholic schools growing up. During college my Sunday attendance became lax.
But my parents instilled in me the importance of the Catholic faith and now as an adult
I have begun going on a regular basis. I have come to enjoy my renewed involvement.
My dilemma is that my significant other is agnostic and has no plans to join me in my
Sunday ritual. We’ve discussed his lack of belief and he explains that this is simply how
he has been raised and knows no other way. As we are starting to entertain the idea of
marriage, I am concerned that the religion issue may become a problem in our future.
We both want children and this vast difference in beliefs doesn’t seem to fit a good mold.
Please help me.
Dear Catholic,
I’m okay answering you even though we said it would probably be best to avoid religion. An agnostic
is someone who isn’t sure about deity while an atheist is an avowed anti-God. You at least
have some hope with your guy. The salient point in your inquiry, in my mind, is the decision the
two of you must make when you decide to have children. If you feel strongly that children must
be raised in a Christian home, you have to let him know there will be no equivocation when the
blessed events arrive. If he is okay with this, go forward. If not, it is time to back and fill. You can
change hairstyles, dress codes, spending habits, theatre choices, and so forth, but raising children
is best done with a united front. Marriage is about commitment - children are an extension of this
commitment. Get it in “stone” that your wish for the youngsters will be honored. If you can’t, I’d
strongly urge you re-think a marriage.